Total short bus material :P
It took me a while but I finally figured out that I can't enter exchanges. At first I thought I was just getting bad pairings and I blamed the mods. SO WRONG!!! After these last couple of exchanges I realise the problem is ME!! The mods I think are expecting a certain level of tolerance from the participants... no so with me... I am a squick queen and I stick to my squicky guns... which makes me a bitch to match... especially when I won't make an exception...

So it's taken me like three years to figure this out and I need to apologize to all the mods I have caused grief to and I promise not to enter exchanges again :)